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Best Places to Meet Men/Women in 2015 & What to Do and Say When You Get There! Saturday, February 14

Do you want someone special to share your life with? But instead of meeting Mr. or Ms. Right you keep ending up with Mr. or Ms. Wrong!

I hope you’ll join me to chat about the best places to meet men/women in 2015 AND what to do and say when you get there!

There’s tons of places where singles hang out. But, you don’t need to meet tons of people. You need to meet the right kinds of people! You want quality not quantity!

The best places to meet someone good are actually places that are based on something important to you — places that share your values. This might be different for everyone. For one person, it could be the dog park. For another, it could be a spiritual community. Or for someone else it could be a class about saving the environment.

The key is that it’s a place that attracts people with a shared love or passion. That way when you meet someone, there’s a good chance you’ll already have important things in common. And now’s the time to start thinking about putting yourself out there in 2015!

But, how do you meet someone once you get there?

Women — it’s important to let a guy know it’s safe to approach you. Otherwise, you’ll just attract guys who don’t care whether or not you’re interested. Or worse, they’re interested because you’re not! The only problem is those guys will lose interest once you become interested! That’s why you have to smile and make eye-contact so a good guy knows you’re open to being approached.

Men — it’s important to read her cues. When you smile at her, does she make eye contact and smile back? When you start chatting does she answer your questions and ask you questions about yourself? Does she face you and/or move closer while you’re talking? These are all signals that let you know she’s enjoying getting to know you. Then it’s a natural next step to ask if she’d like to get together some time.

Best Places to Meet Men/Women in 2015 & What to Do and Say When You Get There! Saturday, February 14
3:00 p.m.
Holistic Wellness Community Center
4243 Telegraph Rd.
Ventura, CA
Cost: $10

Vonda (“Vondie”) Lozano, Ph.D., is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Hypnotherapist. She’s been featured in Cosmopolitan, the Wall Street Journal and on KABC Talk Radio. Vondie offers hypnosis, counseling, and workshops in Ventura. Nearby cities include Camarillo, Ojai and Oxnard.

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