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Do You Wonder if Your Marriage is Gonna Make It?  

Do you fight about the same things over and over?
Do you feel hurt when your husband (or wife) pulls away?
Do you give and give, but it feels like you don’t get anything back?

Are Things Getting Worse Instead of Better?    

There’s nothing lonelier than feeling cut off from your husband (or wife). And nothing hurts more than fighting with him. Because you love him so much, he can hurt you the most. And when you’re upset, it’s easy to say or do things you regret.

When all you really want is to be close and connected. But, somehow you just keep ending up further apart.

You Can Heal Your Relationship

Most of us didn’t learn how to have a good relationship. No one taught you how to ask for what you need or how to fight fair or even how to have intimacy. That’s why marriage can be so challenging and overwhelming at times.

But, you can have a good marriage – where you trust him and rely on him and he is your #1 supporter, your #1 fan, your best friend. 

You Can Have the Kind of Marriage You’ve Always Wanted  

Couples counseling or marital therapy can help you heal your relationship so you can have:     

  • closeness and comfort 
  • fun and laughter
  • friendship
  • fighting fair and finding compromise
  • romance
  • security and trust

And then you can really be there for each other and find the happiness you’ve been looking for. 

I Love Helping You 

I know what it’s like to struggle to get close to the person you love. I also know that it’s worth it to heal — so you can have the closeness you long for.

I’ve been licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist for 20 years. I taught undergraduate psychology and graduate Marriage and Family Therapy students for 15 years. And most of all — I’m happily married today.

And that’s important. Because, when it comes to relationships, a therapist can’t give what they don’t have. In other words, I can’t help you heal your relationship if I don’t know how to have a good marriage myself. Because, I can’t make you any healthier than I am. (Lewis, Amini, & Lannon, A General Theory of Love, 2000)

I love sharing everything I’ve learned to help you heal yourself and your relationship.

I’d Love to Hear from You

I’d love to talk with you about what’s happening in your marriage and how I can help. 

Just call me at (805) 585-0838 for a free phone consultation.

I’ll look forward to talking to you soon.


Dr. Vondie LozanoDr. Vonda ("Vondie") Lozano is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Hypnotherapist and former Psychology Professor. She offers counseling, hypnosis and free workshops to help you have the life and love you really want. Vondie is the author of finding Mr. Right. She's been featured in Cosmopolitan, the Wall Street Journal and on KABC Talk Radio.

Vondie's been in L.A. for 20 years and now she's in Ventura. Nearby cities include Camarillo, Ojai and Oxnard. Ventura is also accessible from Santa Barbara, Moorpark, Simi Valley, Thousand Oaks, Agoura Hills and Westlake Village.