About Me

I made a lot of mistakes. But I got help and I found love. And that’s what I want for you too. Vondie Lozano

Vondie Lozano, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Vondie Lozano, Ph.D., LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Former Psychology Professor
Author

I had no idea how to find love …

I grew up in a family that tried very hard but there were  a lot of challenges – abuse, addiction, depression, disability. 

I knew I was loved and my parents did the best they could. But, I didn’t get to see what a good relationship looked like — where people treat each other with love and respect.

So I really struggled. I had to “guess” at what a normal relationship looked like and my “guesses” didn’t work out so well. 

My first marriage was brief and ended in divorce. I knew I needed help and I’m so grateful I found it.

I got help and I love helping you

I found a really good therapist. I attended relationship groups and seminars. Slowly I began my journey toward a healthy relationship.

At times it was scary, learning to let someone get that close to me. But I’ve discovered with the right person, love can be safe, and comforting, and FUN! 

And that’s what I want for you too! 

The research says it’s important for your therapist to have a good healthy relationship. Because, “you can’t give what you don’t have.” How can I help you find love if I can’t figure it out for myself? 

Vondie and Henry - Ireland

You Can Have Good Love

If you’d like to have a good loving relationship, I’d love to hear from you – Vondie

Vondie Lozano, Ph.D., LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist


PSYCHOTHERAPY & HYPNOTHERAPY

Certified Hypnotherapist, International Hypnosis Federation, 2012

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist,  #MFT28571, 1991


UNIVERSITY TEACHING

University of La Verne, La Verne, CA. Instructor, Masters Counseling Program, 2003 – 2010

Azusa Pacific University, Azusa, CA. Assistant Professor, Department of Psychology, 1992-2001


MINISTRY

Claremont Presbyterian Church, Claremont, CA. Director of Youth Ministry, 2004-2007
 

EDUCATION & RESEARCH

Ph.D. Marriage and Family Studies, School of Psychology, Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA, 2002

M.Div. Marriage and Family Ministries, School of Theology, Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA, 1988

B.A. Psychology/Biblical Literature, Azusa Pacific University, Azusa, CA, 1983

Research Grant: Center for Research on Ethics and Values, Azusa Pacific University, Azusa, CA, 2000 


BOOK

Finding Mr. Right, Hearts Press, 2017


PRESS

KABC Talk Radio, Romance, What Kills it and How to Get it, February 22, 2014

SheKnows, How Texting Can Ruin a Relationship, September 5, 2013

Cosmopolitan, 7 Signs He’s Not Ready to Commit, January 10, 2013

L.A. Parent, Is Holiday Spending the Grinch in Your Family? October 22, 2012

Wall Street Journal, Need Space in a Relationship? Just Don’t Say it That WayJune 19, 2012 

Web Talk Radio, Getting Back in the Dating Game After Divorce, June 12, 2012

Glendora Patch, 10 Dating Tips to Help You Find Love, February 13, 2012

Techlicious,  The Biggest Online Dating Red Flags, February 9, 2012

Campus Times, Relationships 101: Lozano Talks Love, February 23, 2007

Campus Times, Lozano Helps Find Real Love, October 27, 2006


PRESENTATIONS & WORKSHOPS

  • You Are Worthy of a Good Life and Good Love. Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • The Science of Love: Why You Might Be Afraid of Getting Hurt, Left, or Both! Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • We All Need Each Other. Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Who Are You in Life and Love? Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • New Year – New You. Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Celebrate Being You in 2017. Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • What’s Love Got to Do With It? Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Find Your People. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Love is in the Air. Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Attract Love Into Your Life. Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Love: How to Get It, How to Keep It, How to Make It, Part 1,2. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • New Year – New You. Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Celebrate Being You in 2017. Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2017
  • Holiday Hypnosis Meetup. Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2016
  • How to Let Go of the Past So You Can Get Started on Your Future. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2011, 2012, 2015, 2016
  • Surviving Being Single During the Holidays. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2016
  • What Would You Like to Attract Into Your Life? Ventura Life and Love Hypnosis Meetup, Ventura, CA, Monthly, 2015-2016
  • What Men/Women Really Want. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2016
  • Do Opposites Really Attract? Discover Your Personality Type and Who’s Your Type, Sensational Singles of Ventura County Meetup, Oxnard, CA, 2016
  • How to Meet Someone Special During the Holidays. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • How to Find Someone Who Really Gets You. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2016
  • How to Get the Closeness You Really Want and the Love You Really Need. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • Are You A Sexpert? Get Your Sex IQ. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA 2015
  • What You Appreciate Appreciates. Ventura County Law of Attraction Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • What’s Keeping You from Love? How Your Family Patterns Affect You (Live  Demonstration). Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • How to Get the Whole Package: Friendship, Romance, Love and Commitment. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • How to Spot Red Flags in Online Dating. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • How to Create an Online Dating Profile to Attract Mr/Ms Right. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • First Date Tips to Leave Them Wanting More. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • Best Places to Meet Men/Women in 2015 & What to Do and Say When You Get There. Finding Mr. Right/Ms. Right Meetup, Holistic Wellness Center, Ventura, CA, 2015
  • How to Let Go of the Past, So You Can Get Started on Your Future. San Gabriel Valley
  • Divorce Support Meetup, Azusa, CA, 2015; Finding Mr./Ms. Right Meetup, Dating After Divorce Meetup, San Dimas, CA, 2015
  • How to Meet Someone Special During the Holidays. Finding Mr./Ms. Right Meetup, Dating After Divorce Meetup, San Dimas, CA 2014
  • How to Survive the Holidays. San Gabriel Valley Divorce Support Meetup, Azusa, CA, 2014
  • Guard Your Heart and Be Smart When You’re Dating Online. Finding Mr./Ms. Right Meetup, Dating After Divorce Meetup, Glendora, CA 2014
  • Online Dating: How to Spot a Good Guy. Finding Mr./Ms. Right Meetup, Dating After Divorce Meetup, Glendora, CA 2014
  • Online Dating: How to Spot His Red Flags. Finding Mr./Ms. Right Meetup, Dating After Divorce Meetup, Glendora, CA 2014
  • How to Create an Online Dating Profile to Attract Mr. Right. Finding Mr. Right Meetup, Dating After Divorce Meetup, Glendora, CA 2014
  • Best Places to Meet Men & What to Do and Say When You Get There. Finding Mr. Right Meetup, Glendora, CA 2014
  • The New Rules for Online Dating. School of Multidimensional Healing Arts and Sciences, Irvine, CA, 2013
  • You Can Have the Love You Always Dreamed of: Hypnotherapy Can Make it Happen. International Hypnosis Federation Meetup, Placentia, CA, 2013
  • What’s Keeping You from Love? Glendora Professional Center, Glendora, CA, 2013
  • How to Have Success in Love. International Association of Clinical Hypnotherapists, Costa Mesa, CA, 2013
  • Who Will You Be Kissing Under the Mistletoe? Glendora Professional Center, Glendora, CA, 2012
  • Helping Your Clients (and Yourself) Have Success in Love. International Association of Clinical Hypnotherapists, Costa Mesa, CA, 2012
  • How to Let Go of the Past, So You Can Get Started on Your Future. Glendora Professional Center, Glendora, CA, 2011, 2012
  • Online Dating: Screen Out the Ones You Don’t Want and Find the One You Do Want. Glendora Professional Center, Glendora, CA, 2012
  • Are You Ready for Love? Online, 2012
  • How to Date During the Holidays. Online, 2011
  • Help Me Help You. Group Online, 2011
  • Having Trouble Finding Good Men/Women? Online, 2011
  • Where Are You Stuck in this Whole Relationship Thing? Group Video Chat, 2011
  • When You Can Forgive Yourself, It’s Easier to Forgive Your Ex. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2011
  • How to Trust (Yourself) Again. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2011
  • Sex: Why She Needs to Take it Slow, Why it’s So Important to Him. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2009, 2011
  • How to Date During the Holidays. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2009, 2010
  • Internet Dating: How to Make it Work for You. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2009, 2010
  • How to Let Go of the Past So You Can Get Started on Your Future. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2009, 2010
  • How to Get a Date & What to Say and Do on a Date. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2010
  • What Men Really Want/What Women Really Want. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2010
  • The Nuts and Bolts of Dating: Finding Someone Good Doesn’t Have to be a Mystery, Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2009
  • Dating: Why it’s so Important for Singles and Couples. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2009
  • Why Passion is Better than Chemistry. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA, 2009
  • What is Your Closeness Comfort Zone? Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA 2009
  • How to Get the Love You Really Want. Village Book Shop, Glendora, CA 2009
  • Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert? What Does That Mean for Your Relationships? Lay Counseling Program, Glenkirk Presbyterian Church, Glendora, CA, 2003, 2005, 2008
  • Relationships 101/102: What Works and What Doesn’t. Psi-Chi Psychology Club, University of La Verne, La Verne, CA, 2007, 2008
  • Helping Couples Have Good Relationships. Lay Counseling Program, Glenkirk Presbyterian Church, Glendora, CA, 2008
  • Helping Couples Have Good Relationships. University Counseling Center, University of La Verne, La Verne, CA, 2007
  • Celebrate Yourself. Psi Chi National Honor Society, University of La Verne, La Verne, CA, 2007
  • How To Find and Keep a Good Relationship. Parents Without Partners, West Covina, CA, 2007
  • Won’t You Be My Valentine? Secrets to Finding and Keeping a Good Relationship.    University of La Verne, La Verne, CA, 2007
  • Finding Real Love: Trick or Treat? University of La Verne, CA, 2006
  • Working with Young Women from Difficult Families. La Vie Counseling Center.  Pasadena, CA, 2006
  • Grief/Grieving: It Takes Courage. Presbyterian Church National Consultation for Racial Ethnic Women, Atlanta, GA, 2004
  • Caring Voices and Difficult Choices: Women’s Work and Family Roles. San Gabriel Valley Chapter, CAMFT, Pasadena, CA, 2004
  • Caring Voices and Difficult Choices: Women’s Work and Family Roles. Claremont Presbyterian Church, Claremont, CA, 2004
  • Parenting: An Ecological Approach. Westminster Presbyterian Church, Pasadena, CA, 2004
  • What Men Really Want/What Women Really Want. Singles Group, Glenkirk Presbyterian Church, Glendora, CA, 2003
  • Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert? And What Does That Mean for Your Relationships? Singles Group, All Saints Episcopal Church, Pasadena, CA, 2003
  • The Changing Family. San Gabriel Valley Presbytery, Azusa, CA, 2003
  • Dealing with Difficult Personalities. San Gabriel Valley Presbytery, Azusa, CA, 2003
  • Getting Through Those Stressful Times. San Gabriel Valley Presbytery, Azusa, CA, 2003
  • Addictions:  A Family-of-Origin Perspective. University Counseling Center, Azusa Pacific University, Azusa, CA, 2003
  • Intergenerational Relationships. Claremont Presbyterian Church, Claremont, CA, 2000
  • Qualitative Methodology: Married Women’s Voices and Moral Choices in Work and Family Roles. Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA, 2000
  • Celebrating Family Systems Theory: An Introduction to Genograms. Common Day of Learning, Azusa Pacific University, Azusa, CA, 2000
  • Building Strong Families. La Verne Heights Presbyterian Church, La Verne, CA, 1996
  • Singleness and Sexuality. Singles Group, Glenkirk Presbyterian Church, Glendora, CA, 1994
  • Relationships: A Family‑of‑Origin Perspective. Singles Group, Glenkirk Presbyterian Church, Glendora, CA, 1993
  • Aids: A Psychological Perspective. Chapel, Azusa Pacific University, Azusa, CA, 1992
  • Eating Disorders: What’s Eating You? Singles Group, La Canada Presbyterian Church, La Canada, CA, 1989
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